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An echo of the way you knew me under foreign skies.
Before you add, read.
Things that I don't want polluting my friends page
-Poetry or art journals. Poetry's all well and good, and so is art, but it's not my favoured daily reading material. Photo journals however will be accepted. Because photos are pretty.
-Journals that entirely revolve around politics/religion/economics/legal issues/everything that's wrong with the world. If I want that, I'll go watch the news.
-Sex journals. All well and good for you to talk about sex, I do too. But if the entire journal revolves around sex, then no.
-Diet journals. Now, I have a lot of people on my friends list who are dieting or are on a diet - Progress updates are FINE. Feel free to talk about your diet in every journal entry, as long as there is SOMETHING ELSE THERE.
-Over-obsessive fangirlies and fanboys. I'm fine with fandom, but when every post is something along the lines of "naruto is kyute i want to marry him =DD omg i did fanfiction read it!!!" then please, PLEASE don't add me.
-Journals full of how xxxxxxx is ruining your life. This includes your boyfriend/girlfriend, drugs, self harm, mental illness, etc etc. I've struggled with shitty exes, drugs, self harm, mental illness and all the rest but it's not all I post about. That's just depressing. Highs and lows are welcome. But lows and lower lows aren't. Add me when you cheer up.
-Again with drugs. If your journal is all/only about drugs, don't bother.
-Homophobia
-Xenophobia
Now, if you got past that...
The Rules
-Introduce yourself. Tell me who you are within a week of adding me, or I'll defriend you. Even better, tell me who you are before you add me. Comment here or message me, either way. I want to know exactly who's reading my journal.
-There are things that, if you comment with or display a level of in your own posts, you will get instantly defriended. These are -
-->Homophobia or biphobia. Yes, they are two different things and yes, I am just that touchy about it.
-->Trying to create drama. I've no problem if you're opposed to my viewpoints on something. It happens. Everybody has different opinions. But there's a difference between stating how your views differenciate from mine in a comment and blatantly insulting me before rushing to post shit about me in your own journal.
-->Hypocrisy annoys the shit out of me. You get it.
And finally...
My Disclaimer.
My journal may offend you, so do read this before you add me. If you don't and comment asking me to censor or cut something, I won't. That said, I generally cut nudity and/or sexual images anyway.
This journal may and likely will contain at some point the following -
-Sex. I talk about sex quite a bit. It may be a detailed description of a sex scene I enjoyed. Me raving on about a sex dream. Or just talking about it because that's how I feel at the time. And shock horror, some of this might be LeSbIaN sex. I'm pansexual. I go that way.
-Nudity/sexualised pictures. If I see a pretty flogger or a bondage harness, I might post it. I might post a picture I came across on the internet and happened to like. I might post Dita Von Teese's latest spread I liked.
-Swearings. I'm pretty sure not many of you care about this, and it doesn't need a description.
Scared off yet?
I don't care if this makes me seem stuck-up at all. Because I know I'm not. And if you can't see through it I likely don't want you here anyway.
So, if you're undeterred, comment below and I'll add you.
I have taken the liberty of adding you, please add me. I will try and answer you questions:-
1. I am a part-time Dom living in South Africa and have written about my play scenes should you be interested in reading them.
2. I was browsing my LJ, went to fetishconfess and found you. You seem to be interesting so decided I would like to read your LJ
3. I think I have already told you about me.
4. We have a fair amount in common like BDSM. bondage, fetishes, and pee erotic. I love it if I can make my sub pee or if I use it in a play scene. I would love to hear your experiences.